Messed up
I really think i'm winding down the road to depression. I am getting very emotional with no reason at all. And no, its not P-M-S, i think.
I keep getting affected by how others live their life. I keep getting affected by what people think of me. I keep getting affected by simply everything. One minute im fine and then i start to cry at night, just looking at how happy people are with their lives and how.......i wish i had that.
I am very thankful for what i have in my life. Really. Thankful that i don't live like the kids in Africa. I have home, food, clothes, education etc etc. But sometimes, i can't help but wonder why did my life turn out this way? Why am i so boring? Why am i average? Why am i myself?
People my age, they party occasionally for fun, they meet friends and can stay outside till late night, they spend on clothes/shoes. Whereas me, I hate partying. I partied once and i can't take the night life. Whenever i wanna meet my friends, my mom will stop me, saying why do i always prioritise my friends when they don't prioritise me. I can't even come home late without feeling guilty and scared that my parents won't talk to me. While my family is stable on income, to get money from my parents to shop is a miracle. I can't spend and shop always with friends because i can't afford to. And sometimes, thats the reason why i hardly meet up with friends because i don't have enough money to spend on drinks or food or whatever.
Im a very dull person. And i hate that about me. I really do. I sometimes hope i can lighten up and fool around once in a while but i can't. Im just this uptight bitch who is so afraid to open up and have fun. And when my other friends have fun without me, i got jealous. I just dont get myself. I mean, i hate to have fun but at the same time, i can't stand seeing my friends having fun without me. I am being selfish and i hate myself.
I want my friends to be happy WITH me.
I wanna change. I wanna be a different person. It takes time but i dont know how much longer i can wait. I dont want to keep losing the people i love because of my messed up self.
I think i need professional help. Damn, I have been hating myself for so long i don't even think this feeling will ever go away.
I keep getting affected by how others live their life. I keep getting affected by what people think of me. I keep getting affected by simply everything. One minute im fine and then i start to cry at night, just looking at how happy people are with their lives and how.......i wish i had that.
I am very thankful for what i have in my life. Really. Thankful that i don't live like the kids in Africa. I have home, food, clothes, education etc etc. But sometimes, i can't help but wonder why did my life turn out this way? Why am i so boring? Why am i average? Why am i myself?
People my age, they party occasionally for fun, they meet friends and can stay outside till late night, they spend on clothes/shoes. Whereas me, I hate partying. I partied once and i can't take the night life. Whenever i wanna meet my friends, my mom will stop me, saying why do i always prioritise my friends when they don't prioritise me. I can't even come home late without feeling guilty and scared that my parents won't talk to me. While my family is stable on income, to get money from my parents to shop is a miracle. I can't spend and shop always with friends because i can't afford to. And sometimes, thats the reason why i hardly meet up with friends because i don't have enough money to spend on drinks or food or whatever.
Im a very dull person. And i hate that about me. I really do. I sometimes hope i can lighten up and fool around once in a while but i can't. Im just this uptight bitch who is so afraid to open up and have fun. And when my other friends have fun without me, i got jealous. I just dont get myself. I mean, i hate to have fun but at the same time, i can't stand seeing my friends having fun without me. I am being selfish and i hate myself.
I want my friends to be happy WITH me.
I wanna change. I wanna be a different person. It takes time but i dont know how much longer i can wait. I dont want to keep losing the people i love because of my messed up self.
I think i need professional help. Damn, I have been hating myself for so long i don't even think this feeling will ever go away.
"Messed up" posted at 09:42